I think I love her Options

[Marko]

I am not superficial. I am not the usual crazy fan. But if i see her smile it filles me up with empathy. I don`t know why. In this situation I am just one of the stupid ones all over there. But have you seen her eyes? She is so beautiful and i think she is also a very special person.

[Guest_Marko_*]

I think it must be hard for a woman to be loved all over there cause of their profession not of their person. She just keeps me in memorys of a person that i lost taking a huge part of my fantasies. Her way to smile airs such an similar easyness and weakness. These memories also hold me back from living (for years). She just changed.
But as long as it goes I have to accept. I tried to change my mind but my head could not control my soul. It is so unteachable. Truly i am not in deep love with Mlle Casta. But i found something on a photo of her that i couldn`t see for a long time. Excuse me.

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[enlitype73]

Ive not seen any of the French films that shes done, but for those that have, do you think she has the talent to give up modeling to concentrate on acting?

[tessla]

like many supermodels she started as a child, really. when you are a hot talent, they use you as much as they can to make money. you make money as well but you are most popular from 15-27 years of age. That's a lot of internal pressure on a young woman, especially if they've lost their childhood.

Lots of young models in their mid 20's marry. They either marry a hot leading man or rockstar type or a captain of industry (publisher owner, movie mogul, music mogul, computer tycoon, etc). During this period it gives them rest and financial security to develop or refind their own identity, sense of mission, have children, explore new ventures.

It sounds like Stefano (?) came in at the right timeline.

I'm not saying it's not real love, I would imagine with a number of years and children together it is.

But what often happens is as the woman raises children, heals their own lost youth they often want to create again, their own way. This often creates tension in the relationship because what used to be a desirable security blanket maybe feel suffocating if it's now time for them to spread their wings again.

Then of course there is the issue of male female dynamics. The young woman supermodel or actress or music star is sometimes a bit of a trophy wife to the man they marry. Yes of course they love their wife but it's hard to separate the attention they command to you as husband to them. This is good in the beginning because they are a trophy and you are elevated because they are so desired, but as time goes on it can become issue. The man might tire of her getting all the attention, being the real star. The man's career might stall or fade and then when the wife wants to start creating rejoin the public eye they become fearful and try and control.

I'm not saying this is the case with Casta, but in your point that you sense a change with her meeting of Stefano makes sense. She's likely in a different period of her life and often when a woman young in love, focused on her children, in search of establishing her stability, her security, the man in her life exerts a huge emotional/psychological influence. If the woman is headstrong and has a fighting sense of self then things balance out eventually, especially if she senses what used to be perceived of as security and love is now feeling like a loss of freedom and control.

sorry about the length, but I've seen this in a number of women I know.

[tessla]

Ive not seen any of the French films that shes done, but for those that have, do you think she has the talent to give up modeling to concentrate on acting?

Modeling brings in $$.

Her acting is with arthouse films which might feed the soul but not the pocketbook, typically.

Personally, I see her in one film (nes in 68) and clips. I think she's a natural, intuitive talent.

BUT she's going to have to hookup with a decent script (a good story) that is married to an excellent director. (and by that I mean she need to be cast in the right role with a director who can bring out her talents but who also knows how to tell a story and can edit a film properly). So far I haven't been impressed with the strength of the scripts and/or director's results in films she's been in.

I'm glad she's not doing Hollywood/French blockbuster type film. If you think the directors she's worked with so far haven't utilized her properly, I shudder to think about what a mainstream production would do with her.

[tessla]

I think it must be hard for a woman to be loved all over there cause of their profession not of their person. I tried to translate your post and i think you`re right. She just keeps me in memorys of a person that i lost taking a huge part of my fantasies. Her way to smile airs such an similar easyness and weakness. These memories also hold me back from living (for years). She just changed.
But as long as it goes I have to accept. I tried to change my mind but my head could not control my soul. It is so unteachable. Truly i am not in deep love with Mlle Casta. But i found something on a photo of her that i couldn`t see for a long time. Excuse me.

It is often the condition of women, not even supermodels, to be loved for what they're not. If they are pretty some only see the skin. If they have large breasts, some men only see that. If they are ugly they might not even be seen! Many times people claim love with someone but what they are really in love with is their projection or fantasy onto that person who they say they are in love with!

But I'm curious about your comment, I'm not sure I understand. When you see a photo of Laetitia something about it reminds you of a long lost love of your own?

[tessla]

The sense I got is that you are both haunted by and chasing shadows and ghosts. This isn't a disease of the mind but rather the spirit.

If we were living in a spiritually based world you'd be sent not to a psychiatrist but rather a shaman who would help you with a soul retrieval.


Might I be so bold as to suggest not only to you but others "in love" with Laetitia to examine the source of your feelings? The awe that you sense is most certainly triggered by her, but the power or awe you feel isn't her, you don't know her. The power is greater, the awe the joy the so called love you feel is from a deeper place and energy. Depending on your belief system it has different names.

Don't pursue the ghosts and shadows and instead see if you can find your own center and let the same energy that you see in her, flow through you... otherwise you will end up giving your life force to a voided fantasy realm.

ps...tessla has nothing to do with laetitia, its a nom de plume derived in part from nikola tesla

[intolionilk]

I think both of you are falling in love with each other, but before doing some wrong thing, try to know more about him, such his temper, tolerance, habits, his parents, everything about him, then think about further relationship.

[hope1]

I am not really sure how to comment to this thread, but I will express what she symbolizes and gives to me , aka my name hope, I do not know her, but what I have seen of her, film wise she is an amazing actress and being that she conveys so much thru her face, les ames fortes, being my all time fave, nes 68 and if you think for a moment , modeling a still picture , the model conveys an emotion without saying a word, and we do not give credit to this, she is so good with humor in movies, as in modeling, she conveys sadnesss, as in her modeling , mischievous k not best speller, she is human most of all wich is all these qualities, and not showy, or brag, none of these she lives the life she wants to, and for that, I love laetitia